Well, it has been a long time since I have been on this site. . . .I miss it, because the people are really outstanding here!!! They are friendly, warm, and pretty darn non-judgmental and accepting!!
I was living in Denmark this past year off and on, off and on. I hate to say it, but I just could not adjust to being there. . . I like to see myself as very accomodating and flexible, but I believe I truly ran up against a wall, there. I just could not adapt to that culture. . .
But, why? I ruminate about my experiences the past 2 years, ad nauseum, so, I am not going to belabor these thoughts much more. I just know, in my head and in my heart, I do not belong there. I have given it several tries, only to escape back to the States, where I feel at home.
I am back on South Carolina, looking for work. My husband remains in Denmark and I hope he will come to accept this and the fact that the relationship cannot work. The differences are too extreme and I am afraid there is no amount of reconciliation that will work. I hope and pray we can be friends, though. Every thing takes time, so one step at a time. . .
I am looking for work here and found some, but they are temporary positions. It takes time to get into building a life here, so I am going to be patient.
Take care, Reds!
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