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Crazy is as crazy does...
Posted On 06/25/2012 18:21:21 by darkest_red

Over the last couple of years I have noticed something (though I am not saying it is an original observation, I am aware that it is not).  It is always the crazy chick that gets the guy.  On the surface of it, that would seem ridiculous but it is so true.  And, come to think of it, it’s true the other way round to.  The crazy guy gets the chick. Given the choice between a normal person and someone who will get completely paranoid if you happen to not call them by your pet name once, or someone who will get all weird and jealous when you compliment someone else that is in the same photo of them, even if you have already complimented them in that same photo numerous times, or someone who will quite possibly remove and eat your kidney next time you fall asleep...people go for the crazy person.  Maybe it’s a sub conscience thing.  Maybe it’s just that people like to think they can fix the crazy, maybe people like the idea of being the one who DOES fix the crazy. Or maybe a crazy person just seems like a more interesting/exciting prospect. I haven’t figured it out yet, and probably never will.  But you know what?  It has given me a new way of looking at things, because, hey, all us single people…maybe we’re single because we’re not crazy.

And I, for one, can live with that.



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07/15/2012 18:48:16
I do too!  I wouldn't want to be in that kind of relationship, but it would seem I am very much in the minority!


07/13/2012 08:33:58
The crazy girl may get the guy but what kind of relationship do they end up with and for how long is what I wonder. You can just ponder these things over and over in your own mind .. well least I do!


06/28/2012 16:30:33
Oooh right, I get you.  I'm not looking for the crazy in anyone.  I'm not saying it makes them bad people, I only really know one of them and she is nice, the other...well, he makes my friend happy so that's enough for me (and for the record, he was the one who called her crazy).  I'm not avoiding anyone and I'm not demonizing them.

I certainly don't actively look for bad in people, quite the opposite, in fact.


06/28/2012 00:03:44

But the thing is, if people are specifically looking for the crazy, and they find one tiny iota of personality that they don't like, that person becomes completely crazy to said observers, and it becomes an excuse to avoid them and loudly complain about them to other people. It's a label, and it's too easy to use to demonize other people.

I prefer to look for the good in others. I find it frees up my mind.



06/27/2012 17:34:34
That's the thing though...I don't think people are necessarily looking out for the crazy.  One of my friends and I always used to joke about the crazy chicks our friends went out with...now he's going out with a crazy chick himself.  Here's to sanity because, frankly, the crazies aren't worth the trouble!


06/26/2012 23:47:43
Well, if you're going to look for the crazy, you're inevitably going to find it.




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