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Men hater
Posted On 07/20/2007 11:46:41 by necymae79

Man Hater
Current mood: crushed



I hate men. Most men, All men. They are never what the seem to be they only are after one thing.


Yes...this is me venting about the evil guys that make you promises and break your heart into a thousand pieces.


I loved with all my heart and gave everything I had. I cried and cried and wondered why ??? Now, a man is trying to tell me he could be different and that I am worthy to be loved. I am his everything and he sees the bad things in me and still loves me...despite myself.


Well, only time will tell and my heart will mend slowly from the years of confusion. Can I even handle the chance that I could be Happy...or am I doomed to put all the rage I have and hatred into this innocent bystander.


Men suck. Men f-ck you up and tear down your soul. Then the kiss you and hugg you and whisper I love you.


I hate men. Despite that they are not all bad...I am just too tired to play games and figure who is real and who is fake.


So, I'll hate men until I have been given a reason to love them again.


LYB-


Denise



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From: Head_Red
07/23/2007 20:55:55

I used to think women sucked. I was on the fence of misogyny once.
but ALL of it changed when I stopped blaming the wrong person, and I got so hurt I knew there was only one way to fix my problem.

I blamed myself.

The whole time, I knew that I had something, something valuable about me that I had to offer...something that no other man on the planet could offer another girl.

The only problem was that I didn't know how to convey that to the people around me.
I didn't understand the rules of attraction, and I didn't even know that i didn't.

I never tried anything different, except when I was motivated by frustration and spite, and it's obvious where that ends up.

But because I blamed myself, I knew who was in control of the problem, and whose responsibility it was to FIX it.

now instead of moping and 'hating' on girls to fix the problem, I meet up with my guy friends to figure out girls, and I found countless resources online with guys who were exactly where I was, and who give the tools to learn what they did the hard way.

hokey? cheesy? Tiger Woods has a swing coach. and he's one of the best at what he does.

and no I'm not going to give you some 'miracle' link with step-by-step instructions to fix your problem. If you  wanted to change you would have found out why wussy men who are afraid of being supermen hurt girls, instead of venting and sulking like I used to.    

Shame on you =P 

From: gracecuneo
07/20/2007 22:18:39
I have certainly been  there, done that, and got the t-shirt. Hope your heart heals quickly!!

From: wayneriffic
07/20/2007 20:24:59

Ahh, well...change 'Male'  to 'Female' in your post, and there-universal to feel that way sometimes.


Although, I am a Man, I am not 'that man'


Some people are just plain old assholes, Regardless of their genitals.

From: narylethotep
07/20/2007 18:10:13

Just because you hate us, doesn't mean we can't still be friends. 

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