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Telling our selves stories, Getting "redheaded"

By: itsjules
Mood: anarchic
Date: 12/20/2007 01:52:53
Music: None


It's so easy, in an online environment, to start telling ourselves stories about the people with whom we're interacting.

Actually, I think it's almost impossible NOT to do that.

The connections we make with those we "click" with can be as real as any other.

But the thing is, we don't REALLY know each other. And the stories we tell ourselves can lead us to make assumptions about others, and that often leads to wanting to make those people act in the way we want them to, in relation to ourselves.

Was that too grammatically dense? Does anybody get what I'm trying to say?

I love SO many people on here. And I love it here, period. And I won't claim to be consistent all the time, because I'm moody as hell.

Hell, as you know, is notoriously moody.

I can't be fit into someone's idea of what I am...I mean, I can't fit into the stories; nor can anyone else. And I get a bit resentful of it.

Hence, if I have hurt any feelings, I apologize. But I yam Popeye, yo, and I can't be naught but me, moods and all.

Bet most could say the same.







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From: itsjules
12/21/2007 06:29:55

Yes, and a mouldy old mold it was, as well.

(KIDDING! I know I'm fabulous )



12/21/2007 01:21:27

I can absolutely relate my dear - we do not really know each other (here in our online environment) and no we cannot fit in to the molded image of what others think of us - well, because they broke the mold when they made you -

Are you moody? I never noticed....



From: waywardred
12/20/2007 20:31:24
They sure can be. I do not know what you are talking about except for the clandestine feelings thing. You have not hurt mine.


From: cinners
12/20/2007 20:13:26
I got your back girl!!!! And I will try not to look at your ass while I AM BACK THERE!!! LMAO


12/20/2007 18:43:27

Hmm, I dunno- my profile is as it is, made by me, for my entertainment, and to inform others if they are interested a little smattering of who I am, and what i'm about-bit odd really i suppose, this internet pen pal thing we all got going on here at the site, but I enjoy it.

Often I myself wonder if some of the folks I've interacted with here would actually enjoy my company IN PERSON, and vice versa.  Some might, others might not.

C'est la vie...



From: itsjules
12/20/2007 14:23:34

No, Brandi, what I mean is, OTHER people tell themselves stories about the people they're dealing with...like, their imagination takes over and makes stuff up about the people they're dealing with...

I knew my grammar was effed-up...does that make sense though?



From: BrandiLea
12/20/2007 14:21:23
Well I don't tell "stories" about myself...I am what I am. Looking at my profile, posts, blogs, whatever its me throught and through!


From: itsjules
12/20/2007 14:10:51

Lol, thanks for the solidarity, Cinnabunz!

 



From: cinners
12/20/2007 09:51:32

geeze Jules....you naughty girl! Did you or all 4 of us offend someone????

I hereby announce that I am also to blame for whatever she did! lmao



From: feoxorus
12/20/2007 09:12:24
Wouldn't a commune of Redhedd's be a hoot? For about the first hour!


From: Sinsin
12/20/2007 05:12:39
Yep Jules, you've got it right on the money hunny!








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