I know nothing I say will make the pain go away, but it's clear that a lot of people care about you and love you here, and we will help you in any way we can. I'm so very very sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine the void that has been left by someone so close. Take care of yourself, we all know that you will get through this.
Mary I'm so so sorry. Please let me know if you need anything at all. You'll make it through, I just know it, and always remember that you were able to reminisce with him.
BIG hug, Mary, and much love, and again, let me know if you need me, ok?
