it all comes back to the eye of the beholder - the veneer, the substance, the attitude, the game and the reality and its all good fun when it happens...didn't say it was clean fun
Hmmm..... I'm going to be the ah-noos and say a few shots of rum......
In reality, having a fire burning in another person's soul is the best. They don't rely on you to make them beautiful, they just are, with or without you.
Charmed by the person you are, admires the goodness of who you are and the gentleness of your heart. Beauty reflects on your face which eyes capture, because to know you is not just to see you.