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Red Dread
Posted On 07/11/2008 09:31:14 by msMoonGlow
So, my husband went to this muic festival in Michigan over the July 4th holi and came back aching for dreadlocks...he hasn't had a haircut for almost a yr + a half, so you can imagine its startin to annoy him (what with summer heat and gettin in his face and all). Personally I think it was watchin 10000BC that put him over the edge as much as the fest but we won't tell him that, lol. But yea.
Well, we bought the beeswax and spent a good portion of the "late nite "and "wee hours" last night backcombing and waxing and twisting and backcombing and beading and twisting and backcombing...Suffice it to say we have not one usable comb left and one more dreadhead on the continent. I really hope they turn out well, as it was a lot of work and pretty painful for him (I actually had lots of fun!). Of course we won't know for sure right away, it takes a few months for them to lock up and be fo'sho planted in. I'm sure they will though, and I was put in charge of the "department of hair creativity and maintenance" so I can touch it and play with them just as much as I feel like!! Yay!   
I thought about doin dreads a while back but put a nix on it as per advice from the boyfriend and several vehement lovers of my hair (who I now realize are surprisingly more numerous than I had imagined)....I like the look of the skinny dread, but I also love the feel of brushes or fingers or wind running through my hair. But besides the ultimate goal of never having to really do much with it, free creative range comes attached. Ribbons, beading, coils, random things I might feel like stickin up in there, shinies and pretties and lovelies...not to mention if I wanted to chop them off, my hubby thinks me and short hair is sexy. So while his dreads set in and develop I will be doing some considering on whether or not I'd really want to. If anyone who stumbles across this wants to comment or put in your 2 cents, feel free. I like lots of opinions.

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07/12/2008 04:01:52
Hi,
I agree with a lot of Red-Earths comments.  I had dreads for awhile.  A lot of my friends had either shaved heads or dreads.  I bleached the ones i had at the back & dyed them bright purple.  (orange & purple=complimentary colours btw!) I tried the 'no washing' school of thought for a while (they say your hair somehow produces oils that become self-cleaning.) but i had wash in the end, the itch was driving me mad.  The shampoo actually helped bond them together.  There is nothing worse than the sound of your own hair tearing as you separate them.  When i had enough & desperately wanted to run a comb through my hair it took a lot (time, pain, conditioner & hair loss) to get them out.  It was great to be able to run my fingers through my hair.  Ever since then my hair is really prone to knotting at the back, a hairdresser told me once the dreads had affected (damaged) the roots there. (?) I don't know.
That's my experience.  They say you regret what you haven't done rather than what you have.  It's only hair & it grows back.  I also shaved my head completely when I was 18, & when it grew back I had better, nicer curls than before! You never know...!


07/11/2008 16:02:35
Oh ya get some dr. bronners
no phosphates anymore if you have dreaddies
they will mold unless you blowdry them
and they will clump if you dont separate them daily
they will not form well if you do not roll them continually


07/11/2008 15:59:41
I have had dreadlocks twice.
They are a lot more maintenance than one would think.
Bob Marley had a full time staff for maintenance of his dreadies.
I have done dreadlocks for a couple of my friends as well.
You learn a lot while having dreadlocks.
Many people will comment (politely or impolitely)
You get snickers from people passing
I have had mothers pull their children close
as if I might run off with them
I have been talked down to by people less experienced and less educated than myself
It is a martyrdom most dreadies were not intending when they started back-combing
What you end up getting out of it is not cosmetic at all really
You learn to recognize what people could potentially think of you at a glance
You learn to recognize what type of people would love to oppress you if given the chance
You learn to smell superficiality from blocks away
Most importantly you learn to love yourself for who you are
regardless of what people think of you or what associations people pin to you
You learn how little value those types of superficial tags have
When you are that far you have graduated (so to say) and you can keep them for cosmetic appreciation
but many cut them before they get that far
Good luck
It is good for you overall in my opinion
but go into it informed
I am not claiming to be a professional in the field or anything
but I have had them and these are my experiences



07/11/2008 14:56:33
I love the way you write, first off (but you know that from writerscafe, lol) and second, how FUN!

I'm not a huge fan of the dread for chicks (at least not for me) cuz I do like the soft shinies especially of red shades of hairs, but for dudes, if they're done well and kept CLEAN (cuz it can get EW, you know) they're pretty cool.

HowEVER, as you say, you could do skinny ones, and then just have a decoration fest with them! I think that whichever you choose, you're golden, since your man likes the whole short hair thing


Oh, and have fun as the Hair Creativitor, lol, sounds very fun


07/11/2008 14:00:06
i tried to let my hair grow.just too damn slow.couldnt do anything with it,and started looking kinda,out there.wish i had the patience,to get to the dread point,myself.it is way cool


07/11/2008 12:50:06
Cool. Dreads rock.




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