Dont take offecne to this but I kinda feel embarrased posting a question like this on a website.  Hence why its in here hopefully peeps will read it none the less :p.

 

I got this girl I know and last time I saw her she made me feel like butterflies where hopping around with elephants in my stomach lol.  I'd like to ask her out n stuff but before I get to that point theres obviously some good conversation needed.  But my mind goes blank whenever I see her!  I know trying to be calm and stuff is part of the solution but any tips on this or where I should take a conversation to head towards this would be very much appreciated. I'll be with a big crowd so I need some way to get her on her own if I think I should ask her out dont wanna put pressure on her infront of friends.  Also any tips on getting her turned on should I get to that point would rock I'm not to experienced in that department lol.  Many thanks for any tips fellow redheads

Sorryif this is against the way in this part of the forum just delete it if thats the case. 

Bah far to late to edit.  I thought I should eleborate on being a bit embarrased my I've got mates who troll the web and frankly I dont like the sound of having this thread on the homepage

no worries, pottish this spot is password area

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Out of the corner of your eye...

Consider giving me tips doing you're part for preserving the species if you want lol :p

Just don't put so much pressure on yourself.  If you go up to her thinking, i'm going to ask this girl out, if she says know it'll be the worst thing in the world then you're bound to feel anxious.

Just treat it like any other social situation where you are just chatting to someone.  If it helps you to relax beforehand, take a few deep breaths, and think about something else to distract you from what you are doing. 

At the end of the day, what's the worst that could happen?  She thinks you're a freak and kicks you in the nuts, it'll only hurt a little bit.

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Run, run, as fast as you can. You can't catch me, i'm the ginger head man!

Some thoughts. Use a cologne very lightly. Scent is important.

And the best way to have a conversation is to be a good listener. Listen actively and honestly. Don't talk too much about you. Talk about events and hobbies. Stay clear of likes and dislikes until you know the ground your on. You may offend. Be honest and just yourself.

As for the turn on. It will happen, just relax and don't be in a hurry. You will see it in her eyes, her smile and her light touches if she is interested. Don't make a move until the friendship kicks in. Definitely not the first date.

Remember that she is just another person like you. Be respectful and nice to all.

Good luck.

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"Temptation is fun... giving in is even better."