I wouldn't expect my man to be an asshole ALL the time. Every girl wants a sweet man but we also want a MAN. Men burp and fart and say stupid things, but they are also our protectors, you see. If men are nothing but sweet and sensitive, then how are they going to serve and protect us?

I think that oftentimes, "nice" is associated with boring or even "doormat" or "puppydog," and I do think that MOST women find a wishy-washy man untenable.

I think the best way to be (regardless of whether you're trying to 'get' a girl or not) is just YOURSELF.

Everyone has assholic moments, and perverted moments (and thank heavens for them!) and nice moments, and boring moments. But what you should never have is fake moments in order to try to conform to some imagined universal something that all women might like.

Be redheaded, to the best of your ability, and always just be yourself. You feel perverted today? Tell a dirty joke, if you feel like it, IN the right company, but be careful about the sexist ones (cuz us chicks can be bitchy about that). Chill out, be yourself, and you will attract the kind of women who appreciate a 'real' man.

Haha, a guy can be a nice guy and be perverted at the same time.  My boyfriend is one of them. ;)  But, that's okay.  Since... I'm perverted, as well.  Sometimes more so.

Anyways, no.  Assholes aren't preferred.  Before I met my current boyfriend... any guy I dated before him if the guy even hinted at any asshole tendencies... the guy lost all his chances.

Anyways, just be yourself. And... not to be mean or anything... but having a profile picture of your chest like that... is kind of annoying.  Not to be rude or anything, of course. I mean... you could attract the ladies with... I dunno.. your bangin' personality instead of your body.  Maybe you'd even attract someone who appreciates a nice guy, that way.  Just a thought, though.

Anyhoodle, good luck.

Take care and all that jazz.