hi

sounds like you're not meeting the right kind of women.  have you thought about joining a hobby group, or take an evening class, or volunteer?  there will be other people there and certainly women.  even if you don't meet the girl of your dreams it will do your confidence good.

take care  : )

 

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a ginger blonde who loves the hot colour!

I'm in a similar boat I figure you gotta grab fate by the short n curley's and do something about it :)

Confidence my friend confidence. Look at my situation. There is no way someone as hot as Hillary should have decided to marry a shmuk like myself. Women get all sorts of oozy over the confident male. Don't mistake that with ego. I just mean if you walk talk and act like you could give a shi.t they love it. Also never be afraid to make it known that you'll break a nose for her. A man should be a protector as well. I know most women don't like a whine ass. Just think this in the back of your head I don't give a fuc.k what happens. It will change your life.

 

The Rev Hippy Tim

tim pretty much summed this up for me confidence is everything if you walk into a room like you own it then girls will like it (it also helps to have mates that have done communication studies or pyscolagy (yea i cant spell so sue me lol) studies the best people to take out when your on the pull

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MOURNERS. Read the dress code instructions on funeral invitations very carefully. Sombre, whilst being only 2 letters away from sombrero, is a world apart in tone.

confidence is good to have but its okay to be shy also. I tend to notice the shy guys first because I was so shy growing up. You will find her when you try to break out of the shy shell a little

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Welcome to old time Chicago where you can sit at the bar and enjoy a drink and talk about how beautiful life truly is...a place where anything is possible and where true love exists

Well what I've noticed mostly is girls love it when a guy makes the first move. Sooo try and break out of that shell a little bit and just approach someone.

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Wipe that smile off your f***ing face!

I don't think women are the only ones attracted to confidence! Men are too!

 

Dwight, you are very cute. It may be that women are too intimidated by that to come talk to you. Make the first move, like e'erybody else has said.

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Sister, when I've raised Hell, you'll know it.

Hey Dwight- I'm gonna be totally honest... most women, would like to be asked out. I understand you're shy, I am too (luckily I am female, it helps). But, yesterday, I experienced my first blind date, with the most shy guy I've ever met, lol but we're going on second date...see? My point is there are ways around your issue like proposing a blind date to one of your friends ( so they can set one up). But, also.. it would be good to try and work some of your shyness, and once you start dating ...that will help. Hope that helps ya =]

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Some say the world will end in fire

I'm not as shy as I used to be, though when I like someone I'm still like "oh god what should I say?  what should I wear?"  All that stuff doesn't matter too much though, really.  You say women avoid you, but really YOU are avoiding women b/c of your shyness.

What you have to do is temporarily overcome your fear of rejection.  I'm guessing you've never been rejected really, b/c if you have you would know that: yeah, it sucks, but directly after that rejection you suddenly feel really good just knowing that you took that big step out of your shell, mustered up the courage, and asked someone out.  It's not as big of a deal as we make it out to be.

Women liked to be talked to.  They like to talk about themselves.  When you meet a girl you think is hot all you have to do is just ask her questions like where she's from and what she likes to do.  Maybe even mention something about what she's wearing later in the coversation.   Then the next time you see her, you have to remember what was talked about in the previous conversation.  You have to make her think that you weren't just trying to get in her pants, although that's exactly what you're doing.

You've heard all of this stuff before, I dont even know why this topic has even been replied to.  Enough with the pity party, just talk to some girls.  And I mean really TALK to them, not just say hi and keep walking.

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Pelirrojophilia