What is lonlyness about. Today I started thinking about why I do feel lonely sometimes. Well aside from the fact that I am lonely in my apartment room that is quite a fact. What is the reason that sometimes this fact does not interest me in the slightest and on other occasions it does jump me like on the situation.
So what is the difference between the two situations? I think the point is boredom.
The situation on first is that you are occupied with different stuff. You have something to do and you feel occupied. So is the only reason for feeling lonely the part that you do not know what to do with your leisure time? So you need distraction? This would be kinda dumb wouldnt it.
But what do you need someone for then? I think its also to share thoughts and emotions to enjoy company and to feel needed. Soooo what to do?
Hmm first of all sharing thoughts is possible on the net. Hmm no cuddling thats a problem lol :)
- but hey at least you can get out your thoughts and get some feedback that is quite something :) - second I guess try to think what to do with your time because if you are occupied with something you like you wont feel lonely right? :) - but the problem is that when you are feeling low your ideas dont run wild but just in circles :) - that is the main problem :) - SO I guess the best and most important part is to realise that feeling lonely is just a passing sensation that you can best control by just acting and doing something :) 
Tags: Boredom And Creativity
